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Been hearing about some sad breakups in my friend circle recently. I'm so sorry, you guys.
And it struck me that I was hearing a common theme: and that theme was lack of communication - lack of honesty, perhaps. Which is a spectrum from deception to drifting apart for lack of keeping connections open and alive.
It made me find a way to bring up some stuff last night that had been on my mind and I had been keeping to myself because, you know, it's a hard time with the baby and all, why burden ourselves by bringing up more issues, when you're already feeling bad it's a bad time to talk, etc. But that's a bad road. Though it's fucking hard to remember that sometimes.
And it struck me that I was hearing a common theme: and that theme was lack of communication - lack of honesty, perhaps. Which is a spectrum from deception to drifting apart for lack of keeping connections open and alive.
It made me find a way to bring up some stuff last night that had been on my mind and I had been keeping to myself because, you know, it's a hard time with the baby and all, why burden ourselves by bringing up more issues, when you're already feeling bad it's a bad time to talk, etc. But that's a bad road. Though it's fucking hard to remember that sometimes.
