specific toilet training help request

[metaphortunate]

Request for specific toilet training help/information:
What is the best way you've found to wipe the baby's butt after they've pooped on the toilet? We've been having him stand up, but he will not follow directions to spread his little feet apart, so it's hard to get in there & really get him clean. Do you wipe them while they're still sitting? From the front? From the back? The hole in a baby potty seat does not allow much room. :/

Comments

[dancingsinging]

I don't remember entirely (lol badgerbag's poop ptsd!), but I think I spend some time having my kiddo lie tummy-down sideways across my lap while I sat on the closed toilet. Also, forgive me if this is obvious, but you use wipes not tp, right?