Here via the network. IGIGI is a great place to look for dresses. For internet shopping, I like Nordstrom (free shipping, free returns) and Bloomingdales (small but well-chosen selection), too. Lately, I've had great luck with size XL at Anthropologie. I'm 5'8" and 200 pounds, 38C, and wear a size 1X usually. EBAY is a great place to snap up bargains if you know your size and brand, since most sellers don't take returns.

I'm heterosexual and married, very into clothes and fashion, and I don't shave my legs. To be fair, I don't have much hair. You could wear a maxidress or wear opaque tights. Leggings. There are options.