It's possible that you need to moddify your instructions for local social norms, but I stand by my original assertion that people need to be aware that they have a RIGHT to defend themselves.

If they are actually under attack.

/o\

It's so tricky.

And over all of this hangs the specter of sexual harassment and sexual violence, and "why didn't you tell him to stop" and "why was she still smiling at him" and "I didn't know she was scared" and it turns into this parenting nightmare of what-if-ing.