Yeah, most of this is true for me, too. The difference is that I've always had long-term relationships (and specifically ones that don't allow for casual sex outside of them). This means that as with you, the "glamour" has never worked within the context of those relationships, but for me it's only led to a lot of strangers or acquaintances thinking I'm hot, rather than me actually having lots of sex with those strangers and acquaintances. (And for what it's worth, I'm okay with that.)

I've also noticed that I still have the ability to use the "glamour", but that it takes more work as I get older. And that more often than not, it ends up translating to "pretty" rather than "sexy" anyway. Not that that's really relevant to the issue at hand.

-J