You know, I have been very fortunate. I haven't got that feeling, though Christ knows society wants me to, just as it wants me to think about dieting all the time.

I think it may be because, in my late twenties, I thought, "I am not a cornucopia." So I don't try to be one. I am also determinedly selfish in keeping my own priorities, even when they have to be deferred constantly. Like, 95% of all available time.