Oh, yeah, I don't know how well I'd do with a question like that. It does feel loaded and uncomfortable, and to me it presupposes that I'd trust the person who asked it enough to answer honestly, and there's no answer that I could easily give that wouldn't take that underlying presumption of trust for granted. Or, you know, if it's for the sake of small talk - that's not exactly very small talk!

And even if I thought it was a perfectly innocent and normal question to ask, I'd still say that you have got plenty of leeway for snapping at people - even people you love, even people of whom you are asking favors/requests - and I mean, hey, at least you apologized afterward? Pregnancy is just tough like that.