Well the thing is, what we're doing now IS working for us! Unless it isn't and I just don't know it yet! I'm pretty freaking happy, I'm just scared that I'm Doing It Wrong & I won't find out till the Junebug is 7 and torturing cats to death, or until he's 30 and I spend my days weeping over how fast he grew up & why didn't I spend my days playing Lego with him when I could?